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Yup. Still mining juicy topics. Had to take a couple hours off to do actual work, tho...
For Marc: Is Love Colorblind?
Seems that the topic of White Men dating Black Women comes up pretty often. I'm loving this feeling of being a fly on the wall and hearing some of the things people have to say. So the following are completely anonymous snippets of discussion:
White men's game is rather weak. They seem to lack the confidence that most brothers possess. But White men love them some sistas.
But uh yea my experience with them has been they're actually a little more straight forward and will ask you straight out if you'd like to go out for a drink or lunch. I guess they figure if you're going to shoot them down, do it quick! Most do seem a bit lacking in overall confidence as they ask you out. Like "Would you like to go out sometimes?, I know I'm white but.......blah blah blah."-Don't give me an explanation negroe...I mean dude."
One thing about white men that I've found is that they're more into the whole chivalry thing and culturally, they're less likely to holler at a woman walking down the street because they consider it inappropriate. Since black women are often more used to the overt approach taken by many black men, black women don't often respond to the subtle flirtation that many white men use to show their interest.
white men are still in the sexual experiment phase concerning black women. they sleep with but they don't have the guts to marry. dating is meaningless.
I don't think that black women understand that lots of white men are actually intimidated by black women. I have had some white male friends calling me and asking how to approach certain black women because they were crazy about them, and wanted to get to know them, but didn't quite know what to say or do to get their attention.
For me, growing up, black guys always told me I was too dark for beauty and that I need to find the strenght to pick up a hot comb since I didn't want to relax my hair. Now while all this was going on in middle school and highschool. the white guys were telling me how cute they thought i was and how pretty my hair is and asking me out to the dances. These things usually being said to the tops of my shooes because of being so shy or nervous.
if you are a white man and can't "hang" with the program, knowing the consequence of dating a black woman, please don't bring your white behind to me trying to rap. you are wasting my time and yours.
Oh, and where I work part-time, I come in contact with a lot of wm and what I noticed about them that makes me weak (tmi, I know) is the eye contact that they give. They don't look around me, but it's directly in my eye. Whew...
edit 1: quotes are now multicolored to remove all confusion
For Marc: Is Love Colorblind?
Seems that the topic of White Men dating Black Women comes up pretty often. I'm loving this feeling of being a fly on the wall and hearing some of the things people have to say. So the following are completely anonymous snippets of discussion:
White men's game is rather weak. They seem to lack the confidence that most brothers possess. But White men love them some sistas.
But uh yea my experience with them has been they're actually a little more straight forward and will ask you straight out if you'd like to go out for a drink or lunch. I guess they figure if you're going to shoot them down, do it quick! Most do seem a bit lacking in overall confidence as they ask you out. Like "Would you like to go out sometimes?, I know I'm white but.......blah blah blah."-Don't give me an explanation negroe...I mean dude."
One thing about white men that I've found is that they're more into the whole chivalry thing and culturally, they're less likely to holler at a woman walking down the street because they consider it inappropriate. Since black women are often more used to the overt approach taken by many black men, black women don't often respond to the subtle flirtation that many white men use to show their interest.
white men are still in the sexual experiment phase concerning black women. they sleep with but they don't have the guts to marry. dating is meaningless.
I don't think that black women understand that lots of white men are actually intimidated by black women. I have had some white male friends calling me and asking how to approach certain black women because they were crazy about them, and wanted to get to know them, but didn't quite know what to say or do to get their attention.
For me, growing up, black guys always told me I was too dark for beauty and that I need to find the strenght to pick up a hot comb since I didn't want to relax my hair. Now while all this was going on in middle school and highschool. the white guys were telling me how cute they thought i was and how pretty my hair is and asking me out to the dances. These things usually being said to the tops of my shooes because of being so shy or nervous.
if you are a white man and can't "hang" with the program, knowing the consequence of dating a black woman, please don't bring your white behind to me trying to rap. you are wasting my time and yours.
Oh, and where I work part-time, I come in contact with a lot of wm and what I noticed about them that makes me weak (tmi, I know) is the eye contact that they give. They don't look around me, but it's directly in my eye. Whew...
edit 1: quotes are now multicolored to remove all confusion

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